
What are the essential books every man should read? I asked ChatGPT that question recently, limiting it to “the 10 best books.” The AI tool admitted these could vary based on interests (like “philosophy, leadership, adventure, etc.”), but that didn’t stop it from recommending 10 titles. None of the authors on the list I got were born in the last 50 years. None of them are women. One is a manosphere bloviator. One is Jordan Peterson.
I didn’t have high hopes for this test, but it did prove a point I wanted to make: men need better book recommendations. Plenty has been written this year about men drifting away from fiction and how well-read American men have become something of a rarity, but maybe the problem isn’t that men are now hypnotized by podcasters, streamers and video games. Maybe the problem is that when men do seek out an engaging novel, insightful memoir or, hell, even some poems to sink their teeth into, they don’t respond to what they’re served up.
You know what I’m talking about: “The Books Every Man Should Read.” We might be more aware of these lists than the average person, as we run a men’s lifestyle site, but a quick internet search will pull up plenty of these red-blooded bibliographies. For the most part, they’re slight variations on each other: Hemingway, Kerouac, Ulysses, Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Sure, I’ve read The Sun Also Rises a half dozen times myself, but even I can admit that men deserve an update on this quasi-canon. As Haruki Murakami once wrote, “If you only read the books that everyone else is reading, you can only think what everyone else is thinking.” Maybe men just need a helping hand out of the literary quagmire.
Consider our arm outstretched: We’ve put together a list of 72 new books we think every man should read. Instead of tossing the old recommendations in the shredder, we’re actually using them as a jumping-off point: for every new work we believe men should consider (whether it was published in 1813 or 2013), we’re pairing it with a classic of this ilk, one that’s appeared on these sorts of lists in the past. It could be a spiritual predecessor, or they could share something as simple as a theme. Either way, if you’re interested in one, you’ll probably be interested in the other.
We didn’t set out to create a definitive list of novels, poetry, memoirs and histories; these aren’t the books that you need to read to be a man. (That would be a ridiculous claim to make, not that it’s stopped people in the past.) Instead, think of this guide as an excruciatingly curated bookshelf in your best friend’s house. Go ahead and take anything that piques your interest. We’ll be waiting with more when you’re done. — Alex Lauer
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